The Tears That Taught Me by Morgan Richard Olivier, cover
The Tears That Taught Me with its guided journal, Through Tears, I Grow

You read a page that says exactly what you couldn't.

You close the book.

It's still sitting in your chest.

That's what the journal is for.
So you know before you buy

Faith is named in these pages.

Morgan writes from it rather than around it. For most readers that is the reason it lands.

How the book moves
Three movements, in order
IThe RootsName what actually happened.
IIPruning to PeaceDecide what stays.
IIIBloom BoldlyBegin again.
167 pages · most pieces under a page
The book and journal in use
the tears that taught me
through tears, I grow
Before the journal existed
"I read 30 pages on the spot, pen in hand."
Trinelle G. · 2022
"I am now going back, rereading and writing notes."
Jenn M. · 2024
The book puts words to it. The journal is where you answer it.
The book167 pages. Morgan names what you carry.
The guided journal218 pages of prompts, written for this book. You answer in your own words.
★★★★★
4.87
from 525 verified reviews of the book
"I love everything about this journal and the journey it helps me travel through."
Caroll S. · guided journal
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The Tears That Taught Me by Morgan Richard Olivier, coverThe Tears That Taught Me with its guided journal, Through Tears, I Grow

You read a page that says exactly what you couldn't.

You close the book.

It's still sitting in your chest.

That's what the journal is for.
How the book moves
Three movements, in order
IThe RootsName what actually happened.
IIPruning to PeaceDecide what stays.
IIIBloom BoldlyBegin again.
167 pages · most pieces under a page
The book and journal in use
the tears that taught me
through tears, I grow
Before the journal existed
"I read 30 pages on the spot, pen in hand."
Trinelle G. · 2022
"I am now going back, rereading and writing notes."
Jenn M. · 2024
The book puts words to it. The journal is where you answer it.
The book167 pages. Morgan names what you carry.
The guided journal218 pages of prompts, written for this book. You answer in your own words.
★★★★★
4.87
from 525 verified reviews of the book
"I love everything about this journal and the journey it helps me travel through."
Caroll S. · guided journal

The Tears That Taught Me

★★★★★4.87

Some feelings sit for years without a name. You know the shape of them, and still cannot put them into a sentence anyone would understand.

These pages go looking for those sentences. One page at a time, with no rush toward feeling better.

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Inside the book and the journal

The book. Three movements, in order. The Roots, where you name what actually happened. Pruning to Peace, where you decide what stays. Bloom Boldly, where you begin again. 167 pages, most pieces under a page.

The journal. Through Tears, I Grow is the guided journal written as the companion to this book. 218 pages of writing prompts with room to answer them. Paperback, 6 x 9 inches.

Is this book for you

Faith is present in these pages and God is named. Morgan writes from her faith rather than around it. If that is not what you want right now, this may not be your book, and that is fair to know before you buy.

It is also not a programme. There are no steps. If you want structure to work through, the guided journal is the piece that does that.

Format and specs

Book: paperback, 167 pages. 5.5 x 0.42 x 8.5 inches. ISBN-13 979-8985731101. Published March 22, 2022 by Oak Agencies.

Journal: Through Tears, I Grow, paperback, 218 pages. 6 x 9 inches. ISBN-13 979-8-9857311-5-6. Published November 12, 2024 by Oak Agencies.

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Readers, elsewhere

What people say when nobody asked them to

Before anything else

There are things you have been carrying that you have not found the right words for yet.

Not because they do not matter or because you should be over them by now. But because sometimes, you can feel the weight of what you have been through long before you know how to explain it.

This book finds those words for you. The guided journal written for it gives you a place to answer them, so what a page stirs up does not just stay in your chest.

The book gives you the words. The journal gives them somewhere to go.

Who this book is for

You will find yourself on every page

01

You are carrying grief that has no name

The kind that shows up in quiet moments, that you cannot explain to anyone else.

02

You survived things you have not processed

You kept going and stayed strong, but some things are still waiting to be felt.

03

Your faith runs deep, but so does the pain

Belief and breakthrough are not always the same thing. These words meet you in the gap.

04

You want to feel understood, not fixed

Not a five-step plan. Someone who says the thing you have been feeling.

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If two or three of these landed, this is your book.
Look inside the book

Read some of it before you decide

The book open
Even good people find themselves in bad struggles, seasons, and situations. It is not because they are horrible but because they are human.
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A reader's photo of a page
Until you lose your peace, you don’t truly embrace and understand the importance of protecting it.
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A reader's photo
With each tear that crossed my face, the person I once was slowly washed away.
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Morgan said it herself
Search yourself, and be honest with yourself. Don’t act off of emotions. Address and release them.
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The journal is where you do it.
the tears that taught me
the tears that taught me
Morgan names what you've been carrying.
through tears, I grow
through tears, I grow
You answer it, in your own words.
Read the titles together. One finishes the other's sentence.
Inside the journal

Through Tears, I Grow

218 pages of prompts written for this book, with room to answer each one.

Inside Through Tears, I Grow
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Inside Through Tears, I Grow
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How the two work together
Read a page

Most pieces run under a page. Open anywhere.

Notice what it touched

The line you read twice. The one that stung.

Answer it on paper

A guided prompt is waiting, so you never start from a blank page.

Before the journal existed

Readers were already writing back.

"I read 30 pages on the spot, pen in hand."
Trinelle G. · Verified purchase · 2022
"I am now going back, rereading and writing notes."
Jenn M. · Verified purchase · 2024
"I love that there is so much space on the pages to make notes and write scripture verses."
Linda H. · Verified purchase · 2023
Now there are 218 pages made for exactly that.

Which one is right for you?

The book alone is a good choice. The journal is for what keeps going after you close it.
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Questions people actually ask

What kind of book is this?

A blend of poetry, prose, and short reflections on healing, growth, love, loss, and letting go. Each piece can be read on its own, making this a book to move through at your own pace or return to whenever you need it.

How much faith is in this book?

Faith is an important part of this book. Morgan openly shares her relationship with God and the role faith has played in healing and growth. Readers will find encouragement rooted in faith throughout these pages, alongside honest reflections on emotions and experiences many of us share.

I do not really finish books anymore. Is this still for me?

Yes. There’s no pressure to read this book from beginning to end in one sitting. Each reflection stands on its own, so you can take in a few pages at a time and return whenever you need the words.

Will this be too heavy for where I am right now?

The book explores difficult emotions honestly, but it was written to bring comfort, clarity, and hope through them. Some pages may feel deeply personal, while others offer the reassurance and perspective you may need. Take your time and read what feels right for you.

Do I need the journal, or is the book enough?

The book does its job on its own. The journal is for the reader who finishes a page and wants to answer it. If you process things by writing them down, get both.

Is it a good gift?

Yes. The Tears That Taught Me is often gifted to someone navigating heartbreak, loss, change, or a difficult season. It’s a meaningful way to remind someone you care about that they are not alone in what they’re feeling.

How long will it take to arrive?

Orders are typically processed and shipped within 3 business days. Once shipped, standard shipping typically takes 3–5 business days. Tracking information will be sent as soon as your order is on the way.

What is the return policy?

You can return your book within 30 days. Shipping fees are nonrefundable, and return shipping is the responsibility of the customer.

I felt like I was reading my life story in this book. As I turned the page it was both my past and my future.
Becky S. · Verified purchase

Give what this book brings up somewhere to go.

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Customer Reviews

Overall rating: 4.9 / 5 from 530 reviews.

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The tears that taught me was my first book I’ve read in a long time & I couldn’t put it down. It helped me look at things in a different perspective & I loved a lot of things about this book.

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I’m not a reader but got this book and couldn’t out it down. I was struggling with helping past partner get back on his feet after being really ill as a friend. It helped me a lot. I’m still helping but going on living a healthier life. I love this book. Thanks !!

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This book has helped me in more ways than one. I ordered the rest of her books. Can’t wait to dive in on this journey of healing❤️‍🩹

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I’m going through a 6+ year breakup with the girl of my dreams. We both had issues with navigating the tuff conversations. I was pretty devastated that she wanted out, and didn’t want to try to repair what we deemed to be having issues with. Your book provided me with some great insights. Thank you!

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Very insightful, an easy read. I did recognize myself within the pages. I would also recommend this book to others.

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I read this book as soon as I got it from front to back. Very insightful! Love it.

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This book spoke right to my heart. Not one page that I couldn’t relate to.

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Great book. Very inspiring. Will be passing it on to a friend when I'm done read it.

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Loved it so much gave it to a friend who had lost her daughter. Hoping it would help a little.

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I could so relate to the book " The tears that taught me. " So much of myself was in this book. It's almost as if it was talking directly to me. I don't feel so alone now!

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I read this in one night. I chuckled to myself many times and said amen! It’s a tough road but books like this help give hope that we can heal positively and break some chains!

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The book helped me through some difficult situations from my past and my current life

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Wonderful read I felt like you were talking to me. Thank you

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I enjoyed each page I felt very connected. Very helpful thank you

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Amazing book! I related so much as if I had wrote it myself. It’s crazy to me that we go through life differently but have similar experiences!

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The tears that taught me is a game changer, if you find yourself struggling be it with a friend, family member, spouse, colleague, co-worker, or with yourself in terms of issues from your present or past, and you need help from someone who has been there and done that. Well then, let me tell you that this book is for you, it will help and teach you from lessons learned from the authors past experiences, that will help you make better choices and decisions, as well as help you in recognizing when you are being emotionally played and manipulated. The tears that taught me will not disappoint, with every page you will find yourself mesmerized by the author’s authenticity, and unique style and ability to relate to all that you might be experiencing in your own life. As the author says in the book, “With each tear that crossed my face, the person I once was slowly washed away” I’ll say no more, purchase this book, and find out for yourself what a remarkable work of literature you will have at your disposal!!

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Enjoyed this book very much. I felt as if it was written for me❣️absolutely breathtaking and healing.

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I have been struggling to create better and meaningful relationships with family for years. The more I tried something with them the worse I began to feel about myself, no reciprocity with family whatsoever. I came across this insightful text by Morgan several weeks ago, and the more I read the pages, the more I began to relate to the messages inside. I began to realize that many of my family members are emotionally 'Bankrupt' and that their desire to create and develop better relationships is simply out of my control . . . I carry this text with me when traveling as it provides me with the inspiration needed to love oneself, no matter the consequences. I have sent a copy to a sibling who struggles with family like I do . . . and each thoughtful messages within teaches a person to rise up when things feel as if they are collapsing inside. Thank you

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Great book it really hit home thanks for sharing Kim Burthlong so on point!

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This book is exactly what I needed! I've read it twice now and I'm sure I will be picking it up again when I need some reassurance. Definitely a must have! Ordering more of her books immediately ❤️

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Quick read which is great because i never have time as a single mama. Plus i have a hard time completing books because im busy and get distracted with kids, work, well life. I love how the author incorporates God! I am all about getting more enthralled wirh my walk and faith with Jesus in my healing journey! I love the steps and thoughts in this book like your going through a healing journey! I will read again!!

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This reading has impacted my life in one of my most difficult moments. It has made me examine what areas of my life I should work on. It shows me that the perspectives of others about me do not have to be proven by me. That letting go doesn't make you a bad person and it's okay to reevaluate your circumstances. And more important that pain is a rebirth into a new self, loving and respecting each process.

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I absolutely loved this book! It resonated with me the entire time! It made me laugh, smile, cry and heal all at the same time!! The words made me forget the pain and start healing within….. hurt that I have held onto for years! Can’t wait to get another one of Morgan’s books!!🙂

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I’m going through a divorce of a 39 year marriage. Being hard to do is the least to say The tears that taught me have taught me that I can make it and I don’t have to worry about anything I can count on myself and God

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This book is a page-turner! Add this to your read list. You will not regret it. My advice would be to read it when you are in a great head space. Find time to take notes as well. You will not regret this purchase.

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I read this book in a day. I am now going back, rereading and writing notes. This is helping with situations I am dealing with in my life. Highly recommend!

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I am gobsmacked at how relevant everything in this book is to my life. However this made me realize that in order to write with such depth, the author had to live through such pain. I felt heard.

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This book came to me at the best time. I absolutely needed to see this and feel all my emotions through reading this book. I will be sharing with my son and other family members. Keep up the amazing writing.

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